I was infatuated with her now i'm over it need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

well we dated for 2 months then i told her i really liked her and wanted to be with her and it scared her she had been abused pretty badly her ex boyfriend and was stressed with school she said she couldnt be more then a friend right now and she needed her space its been 3 weeks and she will see me in 2 more when college is done i was depressed not seeing her and obsessed with her but yesterday she text me and started making plans for what we will do in 2 weeeks and now im relaxed and ok with not seeing her i want to see her but im scared i no longer feel that way about her and it scares me because i thought she was perfect i like her flaws and she is the kindest quirky and iest girls in my eye but not sure now looking back if we have a ton in common im so confused i still think shes perfect for me but i dont feel like i neeed to see her all the time anymore i dont really care for her that much right now am i still in love ? will it develop? was it infatuation? shoud we just be friends ? am i just feeling this way from not seeing her for a while ? i really am afraid i cant find anyone better then her i really believe that