10 points really need some advice thanks!?

please stoppp take a breather..... look at the situation he is totally pushing you around. he is being really mean dont be a masochist to his way of treating you. let him be! he doesnt care of the way that you feel and be glad that you guys are not going to end up being together. itss so sad to be an army gf or wife they are never around for you or the family if you guys ever had kids. i know iam going far but look at your future with a person like this. he clearly didnt have the same feelings as you. so dont look like a push over. he has been mean once too many times. have self pride and stand by it.(i mean that in a good way) i know it may be hard but you must because he will just tell you worst and worst things that you never though possible and if you stick through that it will just get even worst. f him in other words. :) your closure is what he is giving you remember him as the ****** that he is being and remember that so you never ever give him the time of day again